For those not familiar, that term comes from the sport of Baseball. The pitcher throws the ball at the batter, and if he misses, Strike One is proclaimed. When they miss 3, they are out and have to retire. So, why is this applicable to me? Bit of a story to this one! In August 2017, I had to go into hospital to have part of my stomach removed. It was to be done under keyhole surgery and I had expected to be off work for 2 weeks. No problems with the operation, but I seriously
I tried to explain, that I wanted to examine my cardiac arrest, both from my point of view and then from the five people close to me, who drew the short straw and had to watch the events unfold. My brother and his wife saved my life so saw everything. My eldest son (now 35) and partner along with my youngest son (now 30) saw the vast majority. I have asked them all, if they feel able to, to write an account starting with their arrival upon the scene, ending where they wish it
I I have just received the thoughts from my eldest son and partner. Again, I am publishing this as it was sent in to me and make no apologies for the raw emotion. Please remember, the purpose of this is to try and help any other family who have suffered in this way. To try to show you the best way forward is through strength of family ties, and to talk about it! Dan and Emma's story Nothing in life can mentally prepare you for that moment, that unexpected phone call to tell
